Last week I had my 16 week appointment and boy was that a chore. My 11:10 appointment actually happened sometime around 1:15. I don't know what went on that morning, but by the time I got out of there I'd finished my book, eaten 2 granola bars and was about to go on a rampage because...guess what...I was still hungry.
That said, the appointment was quick and painless. First the nurse did her thing - weight, blood pressure, all that jazz. THEN I got to hear the heart beat on the Doppler. I was a little worried because The Kid seems to me way more active than I am. That sucker was moving all over the place and it took a while to find the heart beat, then every time she found it, it was gone. But, it's there and beating about 160 BPM. (according to the Old Wives Tale that indicates a girl)
When I did see the doctor the fun part began. See, I'm obsessive about things by nature. One of those things being my weight. The whole idea of gaining weight is scary. Especially when diet and exercise won't work as people have been saying for years (those liars!). Don't worry - I'm not dieting. So I ask how she felt about my weight gain. Here's where things went south. She told me she'd like me to keep the gain to about 25 pounds, 30 at the most. That didn't seem too daunting. BUT she also mentioned that she wants it around that point because anything more could mean a "really big baby." Well, knowing that my sister and I were both over 9lbs I voiced my concern/agreement with her. The response "well, your pelvis could handle a baby of that size."
Um...I don't want a 9 pound baby! I want a cute little average 7.5 pound baby!!! She suggested I get in a lot of exercise but I don't think she was too convinced that it will help. Maybe that's the fear talking. So, now I'm even more paranoid about my weight and having a large baby. Remember - I obsess about things. This is my new obsession. I have to get over it, though, because it's only going to cause me to lose sleep and fight with Jason. He (along with everyone else) thinks I'll gain what my body wants me to gain whether I fight it tooth and nail or not.
The next big excitement is finding out if this is a boy or girl. We find out in 2 weeks. I wanted to know yesterday. I wanted to know last month. Wait, I wanted to know the minute I found out I was pregnant. But, I've survived waiting this long. 2 more weeks won't kill me. But I am actually enjoying the guessing game. The Old Wives Tales are mixed - no morning sickness = boy, craving fruit = girl. I could go on and on.
Most people are guessing a girl. Even my hairdresser guessed (very confidently) girl. Rachel said girl the first day we told her. Two coworkers (who have girls) say boy. My cousin Bear requested a boy to balance out the family. If wishing alone could make the decision it would be a girl because I think that my sister wishes 4,000 times a day that it is a girl.
As for me...the jury is still out. I keep hearing that I should have these telling dreams, so every night before I go to sleep I think "this is it - I'll dream about it tonight" and then the next day...nothing. Oh well, there is still time and if not I'll know in 2 weeks.